Durward Discussion: Farewell Michael

06 August 2010

Farewell Michael

7 comments:

Julia Smith said...: Thanks for sharing that - I can feel how much he meant to you.; 6:10 AM
This Eclectic Life said...: I'm sorry for your loss, my friend.; 7:16 AM
Linda said...: Farewell to your friend, he sounds like he was quite the man and will be well missed.; 8:04 AM
carol g said...: A wonderful tribute, Jamie... I am so sorry you lost such a magnificent friend.; 9:45 AM
Finding Pam said...: I am sorry for your loss of such a wonderful friend. He really sounds like a great man.; 4:35 PM
Mimi Lenox said...: An outstanding human being and friend. May he rest in peace.; 1:50 PM
Travis Cody said...: I'm so very sorry for your loss.; 5:14 PM

I'm a hair-dishevelled heilan' coo,
Hamish McKay be ma name;
Welcome tae this dreichet glen
I'm cursed tae ca' ma hame.
Depending on the mood I'm in
I'll raise ma horns on high,
An' if I like the look o' ye
I'll likely let ye by.
But should I dinnae like the look
O' ye, then tak great care,
I'll raise ma horns on high again,
Go on, get oot o'there!
So whether welcome yae or nae,
I'll raise these horns sae mean,
Then ye shall ken ma meaning
By the twinkle o' ma een.

Courtesy of
MARION GRAY Wollaton Road Wollaton Park Nottingham

Quotes

"Holding on to anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die." - Buddha

“Do not confuse "duty" with what other people expect of you; they are utterly different. Duty is a debt you owe to yourself to fulfill obligations you have assumed voluntarily. Paying that debt can entail anything from years of patient work to instant willingness to die. Difficult it may be, but the reward is self-respect

But there is no reward at all for doing what other people expect of you, and to do so is not merely difficult, but impossible. It is easier to deal with a footpad than it is with the leech who wants "just a few minutes of your time, please—this won't take long." Time is your total capital, and the minutes of your life are painfully few. If you allow yourself to fall into the vice of agreeing to such requests, they quickly snowball to the point where these parasites will use up 100 percent of your time—and squawk for more!

So learn to say No—and to be rude about it when necessary. Otherwise you will not have time to carry out your duty, or to do your own work, and certainly no time for love and happiness. The termites will nibble away your life and leave none of it for you. (This rule does not mean that you must not do a favor for a friend, or even a stranger. But let the choice be yours. Don't do it because it is "expected" of you.)”

Time Enough for Love - Robert Heinlein